You know it's going to be a good day when you walk in to find the class fish sunken to the bottom of the tank. RIP Nemo.
But the blessing was that today was a wonderful day, that this week has been a wonderful week, and that I feel a little more like a regular classroom teacher this week. Our compliment chain added 5 links today, and we are about halfway to the floor.
And this is a big
I don't like to give too many details because my kids deserve their privacy, but last week was one that I've prayed for and against all too often - I pray that my kids are never that hurt, confused, and and lost ... and I pray that the ones who need it will finally get the help they need. That's what last week was. For one of my kids, one you have all ready about all too often, hit a point that can only be described as traumatic. The amount of anger, loss, confusion, and terror in one child - that it can exist in a young child -- is a lifechanging thing to see. This little boy who has been robbed of life's most simple necessities and rights, who has been burdened with pain and abuse, and who has not only been served a life of hardness and despair but also lacks the mental and emotional abilities to deal with this life -- this little boy is one of mine and I watched him hit rock bottom last week without any understanding of why. It was one of the most heartbreaking moments of my life, and yet in a terrible way I was grateful. Because in this imperfect world, imperfect school system, imperfect school ... rockbottom is what it takes you get help, sometimes.
It breaks my heart how often we force people to lose it all before giving them a little to get by, that people are supposed to fall all the way before we pick them back up, even when we see it coming. I (and not just I) have been trying to get help and attention to this child for the last year, and all I get is "improve your classroom management" or "are you differentiating enough for him?"
Finally, this child is getting medical attention and psychological help to understand and deal with the biological and circumstantial burdens that have plagued his emotional intelligence. He came in today with a big smile, an Iron Man bookbag, and a feeling of gratitude that I've seen from him before. But never this big.
The rest of my week went fairly routine, with many ups and downs and a smooth course. Our grades were terrible on the Thursday Test Day after a short, rough week and a difficult concept (main idea). But it did help me refocus on purposeful, individualized academic plans once a lot of the help that needed to be given was.
And now this week, I keep moving my class forward as I watch our classrooms become more and more emptied. We are currently at less than half capacity, with only 10 regular classrooms plus pre-school. It hit home pretty hard today when one of my students, a favorite challenge of mine since last year, didn't return from last week and was taken off my roster. His house was in the crossfire of a neighborhood shooting last week, and the family had to relocate.
Devastating are the circumstances we find ourselves in sometimes. It's devastating that a little boy has to live a life so hard, especially when put on top of chemical issues that keep his emotional intelligence to be independently able to handle his experiences. It's devastating that Matthew had to be afraid in his own home, and is now no longer attending our school where he had a family - especially without a goodbye. And it's devastating that a school that has been the center of this neighborhood for over one hundred years now stands half-empty with the staff working its hardest to keep the doors open and the children learning inside.
Our kids need and deserve more than that.
But the blessing was that today was a wonderful day, that this week has been a wonderful week, and that I feel a little more like a regular classroom teacher this week. Our compliment chain added 5 links today, and we are about halfway to the floor.
And this is a big
I don't like to give too many details because my kids deserve their privacy, but last week was one that I've prayed for and against all too often - I pray that my kids are never that hurt, confused, and and lost ... and I pray that the ones who need it will finally get the help they need. That's what last week was. For one of my kids, one you have all ready about all too often, hit a point that can only be described as traumatic. The amount of anger, loss, confusion, and terror in one child - that it can exist in a young child -- is a lifechanging thing to see. This little boy who has been robbed of life's most simple necessities and rights, who has been burdened with pain and abuse, and who has not only been served a life of hardness and despair but also lacks the mental and emotional abilities to deal with this life -- this little boy is one of mine and I watched him hit rock bottom last week without any understanding of why. It was one of the most heartbreaking moments of my life, and yet in a terrible way I was grateful. Because in this imperfect world, imperfect school system, imperfect school ... rockbottom is what it takes you get help, sometimes.
It breaks my heart how often we force people to lose it all before giving them a little to get by, that people are supposed to fall all the way before we pick them back up, even when we see it coming. I (and not just I) have been trying to get help and attention to this child for the last year, and all I get is "improve your classroom management" or "are you differentiating enough for him?"
Finally, this child is getting medical attention and psychological help to understand and deal with the biological and circumstantial burdens that have plagued his emotional intelligence. He came in today with a big smile, an Iron Man bookbag, and a feeling of gratitude that I've seen from him before. But never this big.
The rest of my week went fairly routine, with many ups and downs and a smooth course. Our grades were terrible on the Thursday Test Day after a short, rough week and a difficult concept (main idea). But it did help me refocus on purposeful, individualized academic plans once a lot of the help that needed to be given was.
And now this week, I keep moving my class forward as I watch our classrooms become more and more emptied. We are currently at less than half capacity, with only 10 regular classrooms plus pre-school. It hit home pretty hard today when one of my students, a favorite challenge of mine since last year, didn't return from last week and was taken off my roster. His house was in the crossfire of a neighborhood shooting last week, and the family had to relocate.
Devastating are the circumstances we find ourselves in sometimes. It's devastating that a little boy has to live a life so hard, especially when put on top of chemical issues that keep his emotional intelligence to be independently able to handle his experiences. It's devastating that Matthew had to be afraid in his own home, and is now no longer attending our school where he had a family - especially without a goodbye. And it's devastating that a school that has been the center of this neighborhood for over one hundred years now stands half-empty with the staff working its hardest to keep the doors open and the children learning inside.
Our kids need and deserve more than that.